autumn fall get up go on

Autumn is approaching. I say autumn because fall is such an ominous word. Lots of changes, travels, growth, new friends, visits with old ones this year. So a big birthday is approaching and I got to chose where ever I wanted to go, well, within reason and budgetary constraints. We leave soon and I am excited. Favorite spots are favorite spots and if I can't live there I can at least visit every chance I get.

Watching from afar, I see two of my babies just venturing out into the world of school, sports, social obligations with new friends. They are happy and their little ones are the same. They are with men they love who are helpmates and that is good.  My two youngest are working, productive and establishing themselves in areas they have chosen.  I pray they surround themselves with good and positive people. I think they have for the most part. Happy, healthy and safe is what I always wished for for them. Love, adventure and fun will come along but I hope they all have a sense of purpose and enough financial freedom to live a good life.

We have had a good life, financially there have been ups and downs, sacrifices and very few regrets. We have always worked hard and put our family first. No regrets. As you sow, so shall you reap. My soulmate pointed out the other day a long list of what  we have done, spent and focused on over theses 40 years. It is amazing when you look back and see what you have accomplished. The titles and retirement funds may not be as impressive as others who went down a different path, but all in all we have a strong balance sheet of goodness, love and family experiences. Friendships and family have added significantly to our blessings. I've come a long way baby and hopefully have a good way yet to travel.

Happy, healthy and safe is what I pray for, for all of us. And hopefully much more time along the way to hug my loved ones.

On the eve of a new season

Watched the DNC last night. I was inspired  and that does not happen very often. Don't get me wrong, I am encouraged and inspired by my family. I am encouraged by my husband and the gift of waking up each day with a new open canvas before me, but I worry. I worry that many won't look past the ignorance and lies of the Rep. party. They hear "God, family, love, marriage" and think "yes, that's for me, the Dems don't know me."  I know the political arena is never perfect but having listened and watched and felt the power of the speeches I realize the Dems are for me and everyone. That's the thing, they are inclusive. I pray that the majority wins out and gives Pres Obama and the first lady another 4 years. A few extra seats in the senate would be great as well. 25 more are needed Yikes. I believe.